Monday, April 7, 2025

April reigns/rains on...

 Just thinking, while  the weather changes lives -  dramatically from day to day:

        So much of what happens in DC is out of sight and not necessarily for evasive reasons. There is a commonsense mission in playing hard-to-get, an alluring and fascinating motive. It's not necessarily   the current trend of belonging to 'private clubs' for members onlhy (ah, the privilege of being able to afford such a thing). It's a snobbery (ouch, not really the right word) of another kind. The ability to seek out and take advantage of special places that don't really need advertising, to be an insider of sorts in the search for special and unusual places open to the public if the public has smarts enough to know about them. Word-of-mouth messaging, you might say.

    One such place is a private home on a certain street in the Northeast not far from H St. where the owner hosts dinners that he creates for anyone informed of the experience and has the will to spend a goodly penny ((say upward of $200 or so) and the desire to have a communal experience, likely with strangers unless a certain generous someone wants to host a party.. To be surprised about what is contained in each of the 7 or so courses; to  welcome entertainment throughout from the owner/chef himself. And the only way to reserve is through Instagram  (@reikinadc)or by clicking on experiencereikina@gmail.com  or, as I discovered on a whim, ringing the bell on a certain ground level door heralded by a blue light (turned on only at night). The word is passed along by someone who has been there, who can remember the address and who is in no way paid to do so. That host/owner/chef has sterling credentials (hot spots in Houston and on a Michelin starred DC restaurant). The entrepreneur in this case is Thomas Stacy ("chef & owner" reads his card).

    I had been tipped off by a friend who reported on her evening (7 to 10:30 p.m.) praising the quality of the food. He greeted me, a stranger, warmly when I rang the bell, interrupting some sort of musical session happening next to the communal table (for 8 or 10 ) assume).  Sure, he would call back he told me, though never had. Maybe the word is out in enough circles so that he doesn't need or want to circulate more information. He welcomes cash above all, and surely is not wanting to fuss about licensing or taxes.

    Another  successful low-key operation is a small bar with snacks and colorful cocktails  hidden without any notice down an alley off of H St. NE near the Atlas Theater complex. Called Providencia (take the name literally as the providence of pleasure, the place is public and open only  Tuesday to Saturday evenings five days a week, from 5 pm to midnight. barprovidenciadc.com will tell you more, as will a positive article about the place in the Washington Post on March 21 this year. 

It is intended to  be a late night club of sorts for anyone wanting an offbeat thrill - a club without membership requirements or barriers at the entrance.  What was once a flower shop (Not the Little Shop of Horrors at all) has become a business owned and operated by a lively group of young professionals using their Latin and Asian heritages to supply just a small but enticing menu to accompany the most innovative drinks around. For those already familiar with the Cambodian-Taiwanese restaurant Maketto, the name of Erik Bruner-Yang will be familiar. Prices range from $4 to $24 for food items and $9 to $18 for inventive cocktails. I had a lilac concoction topped by popcorn...

Monday, March 3, 2025

March On

     



Take hope when you can - when you can see tulips and other brave floral shoots pushing upwards against the tide of change. Pre-spring signs like these give hope but certainly not without some reservations.  We are stuck in a middle world.  

Look for signs of eccentricity among your fellow travelers. Individuality prevailing over the norm. Speaking out as opposed to  hiding out. With fair weather it's possible to take some pleasure in the public life of strangers. The sight of a tall thin man roughly dressed and seemingly unconcerned: worn black jeans low on his hips - not his waist -  while he strolls along a downtown street. How does he maneuver with this attire?  He has underwear that may have duct tape hidden in the side?  What is the purpose of the pose? Likely it is to provoke, like tulips do on a wet cold day.

Washington DC isn't often thought to be a place of surprises in the public sphere: But surely  - like New York City  and especially Manhattan - there are surprises galore if you look around often enough. Mostly from the ground rather than from a car.

And so today, the 19th, looking at spring's official beginning on the 20th, I was watching out and ready to take any opportunity to interact with strangers. No better place than a Metro car wherre I was seated alone in a two-seat place and soon joined by a woman carrying what appeared to be a fresh bunch of roses. Each one of them so perfect; all different colors. I thought they might be fake. But seeing my interest, she passed them my way - was she even offering me to take them, I wondered at first. I leaned down to have a smell, and then carefully feel them. They seemed unreal. "Mother doesn't know what to do with them," I think I heard her say - supposing these were a gift. They were properly wrapped in plastic, and I never thought I would be the recipient and so thanked her for letting me have a sniff. We shared that moment: that was enough. Not a great word exchange but an understanding of some kind. It was mid-afternoon but the car was crowded. Maybe this was the famous federal afternoon shift for workers who come in early and so leave around 2 or 3. Traffic patterns have changed under the new regime; no telling the sense of change in people's minds and habits because of the great DOGE deluge.

Onward, to whatever may happen but stay in touch...


And this word looking forward: The Folger Library has decided to go all-out for a renewed Shakespeaare Birthday celebration for the first time in years, during which renovation curtailed most public events  No one is certain of his exact birth date so it made sense for this august scholarly institution to schedule it on a Saturday, April 19 ane turn it into a grand free family affairs (registration required), with the new director taking the podium to pronounce on the familiar subject of the relevance of the Grand Old Man in today's world.


 

Sunday, February 9, 2025

February Fog



 
Politics makes and breaks, especially in the fraught days of a new and bewildering government scene.

So there may be little to do but stand watch and prepare to move, whenever or however.

Meanwhile, keep an eye on good omens, weather, judges.

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As always, I try a bit of underground resistance by currying favor whenever I can with strangers, and especially so with strangers on the street or in stores - those  not too strung out their phones or URL codes that have become annoyingly ubiquitous. Seek 'em out where they are to create an instant community of two or three.   Spontaneity will help save us all sometimes. Hence, on my way home from the local Trader Joe store, I stop two uniformed guys with shovels outside the luxury apartment building called the Residences on Capitol Hill . I want to know what is the substance they are about to put down on the sidewalk, in preparation for a major snow fall likely to happen that night. Is the pink stuff - looks like candy fluff - really ok for animals with sensitive feet?  The chemicals undoubtedly are strong. One of the two goes immediately to the trash can nearby to show me the cover of a big plastic bag that contained the 'poison,' known as ice melt. (So pedestrians won't sue the rental company should anyone get injured in a fall???!!) I see the words pet friendly, or pet safe - what is invariably how the manufacturer covers its bets. I learn from the man in charge that there are basically three levels of such protective commercial covering, dependent on price. The ultimate product is very expensive, he indicates; his team has chosen the middle ground.

My message is something of a cliche - since normally who would argue against strangers meeting up and exchanging civil words. 

Right - and at home I've also bought similar stuff from my local hardware store, the only difference being that it is an off white color. So what is its composition and how much should I apply? SUch are the mysteries of everyday life. It turns out (after a long night of falling snow) the medicine only works under certain situations, dependent on temperatures. We guess out way through this life and these times..

My here message is something of a cliche - since normally who would argue against strangers meeting up and exchanging civil words.  But these are not normal times, to judge by public harangues. Why should Apple feel it necessary to add cautionary, even pleading, words automatically  up front whenever a person is dialing/seeking help on Apple Support. The brief but insistent phrase asks a caller to be kind to the person on the other line - a professional paid by the company to help the caller. It implies the company has no faith their customers will be civil - and so a common sense reminder is necessary.

"Hmm, that must be new," said the in-store Apple employe when I quizzed her shortly afterwards about the practice.  So, we have to conclude, manners are in short supply and rudeness reigns.


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"Only connect"  - politely. Which - to continue the theme - is primarily what  Travellers Aid volunteers do when strangers seek their help to navigate what is likely an entirely new and changing scene. Such goodwill messengers are there to invite passersby to use volunteers knowledge of airport layout and services. For many of the public it is a big learning experience to know about the Sunflower program that helps identify passengers with 'special needs,' usually accompanied by someone; that over 1300 lanyards (showing a sunflower sysmbol visible to all) were passed out in 2024. The program still is new and growing.

As for the volunteers themselves, they are as varied on airplane passengers: a 94-year-old woman only recently considered retiring from the job she has had since 2015. Another is a retired eye doctor wanting to be out among people - mindful that his professional background is not really applicable. There are military veterans, single adults wanting company  and liking helping others. Their training is intense, given that many such positions are in sensitive secure areas of the building. True to form, some potential dramas can occur. Such as the time a young new to the job volunteer was confronted from behind her stand (where buttons exist for emergency help in case of need) by a man's seemingly off the wall question:"Where can I turn myself in?"  Was he meaning to report some illegal substance in his carryon or possibly some seemingly more practical question, such as where might he report mistakenly holding another person's property? Ah, the volunteer took no chances and  immediately called on airport police to take care of the man. They came within minutes...

And some peculiar lost possessions might get left behind by people - boxing gloves, for instance - that eventually find their owners when a volunteer knows where such missing objects are housed in the vast territory an airport covers.




--Intermission of sorts  ----------------------------------------A- Preview of coming attractions.....


A garden of delight is promised soon, when the annual camellia show takes place in my yard.

And a reminder that  this blog exists  for two reasons:

    One is to highlight what some people might call lesser attractions to be found in the greater Washington area: programs, exhibits, even behaviors that are unusual and usually welcoming. Just recently while standing on a Metro platform during a three-day interruption of normal service, I was trying to figure out what train I needed to take to a station I seldom visit. Seeing my confusion, a young man nearby asked if he could help and then asked how long  had I been visiting the city.  A startling statement for someone who has lived here nearly 50 years....though, of course, you can always teach an old dog new tricks. I followed up his kindness by offering help to a couple sitting near me on  the next train I took; they seemed bewildered by the system, and suitcases gave me the idea they were real visitors. Smiles ensued...

                                                                A second mission  : share personal experiences living in both rural and urban places  (D.C. and Montana) when it would seem the words rural and urban are out of date and apply only subjectively.  'Urbanities' has a long reach these days.

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   A reminder: What's old is always new or at least reinvented   again, as a visit to the latest exhibit at the handsome and imposing Folger Shakespeare Library proves. In spades, one could say - if spades include lace ruffs, diamonds, garters and  such ilk. "How to be a Power Player: Tudor Edition" runs through July 22 on Capitol Hill. The address is clue to the exhibit's  theme - one that mirrors the power plays and status games taking place there and down the hill on Pennsylvania Avenue today. (If we didn't really install a new monarch, we have elected someone who acts like a king with courtiers all around.)

    A pity on us all, one might say. But the Folger says it better with a bountiful display of old manuscripts and letters, pithy explanatory material brought together in a top-notch very readable and beautiful design. Imagine being able to glimpse at real materials (letters, etc.) from the 15th and 16th centuries. Technically, we are talking 1485 and 1603 during the reigns of three generations of monarchs in England and Wales - including, of course, that of the famously famous  Queen Elizabeth 1.

    Yes, it's a complicated history, and fascination with it only grows as you circle the display cases taking in the complex rules of deportment, behavior and dress from birth to death. The latter matter was also informed by custom and status above all. The rules are many and fulfillment of them required a heavy investment of time and money. There is so much material to be taken in  by a visitor, accompanied by stunning photos and artifacts It's difficult to understand how people lived under such strict codes but the staff seems to have assembled an entire college history  course  on the early modern world within a few walls.

  So much, too, to grasp in our understanding of how the politics of that time is reflected in current jostling for power, albeit under slightly different rules. (The White House today, we can assume, does not follow the marvelously complex patterns for  folding linen table napkins that the Tudors inherited largely from Italy. We don't seem to go overboard impressing foreign visitors with our cuisine - not beyond what is normal for a formal meal in contemporary times. A round white blurb on the front of  the exhibition's  name tells all: 'Learn How To Expand Your Brand, Navigate Scandal, Dominate the Power Lunch, Increase Your Charisma  And More!'

    Need we say more before wishing much of the political hustle tustle of modern life were not so exhausting, though  in quite different ways...

    And this:

        

An Inside the Season conversation for Whose Democracy?

Saturday, March 1, 11am | Free, registration required

From celebrations of identity to shows of protest, parades have been central to our culture. With Mardi Gras on the horizon, the Folger considers how pageantry has led to civic participation and provided shows of power.

Join us for a drop-in crafting session from 11am-1pm to make your own paper plate tambourine and learn more about how parades are represented in the Folger collection with a pop-up collection viewing of items not usually on display at 11:30am and 12:30pm.

All ages welcome!


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Friday, January 24, 2025

SEIZE THE DAY AND THE MONTH

 



January 2025  - a new year, new possibilities whatever is your outlook on  national and world events. Father (why not Mother?) Time always marching (to the tune of different drummers).

Monday, December 16, 2024

Nearly the New Year as December 's Solstice Beckons...

 



            The advantage of December is the sensation of living both in  past and future time: New Year ahead, old year disappearing. Opportunity to look back and ahead simultaneously. This gives rise in some people to make lists - dos and don't, the 'done' and the 'finished with.'  We are floating...

Sunday, November 3, 2024

Continued...as the year moves on to yet another number and letter (N which leads into a D....)...

 NOVEMBER (11)

    More of Continued': The saga of the volunteer  at one of the eight DCA airport Travelers Aid  desks where, invariably,  no question goes unanswered if and when the desk is being staffed, since there are never enough of these good citizens appaarently. Resourcefulness often is required  - at least in one case where the volunteer could not immediately  respond to a question about  names of architects and artists involved in the renovation in the main DCA entry hall.. A passerby wanted to know who was responsible for the design on the ceiling - and how, curiously and probably purposefully, the numerous patterns  high above the glass-enclosed space resembled the shape of the U.S. Capitol. (Photo to come...) Aha, my friend said, I can look that up for you on the spot. Such details are not routine as part of the many hours of training volunteers receive.

    Should she be really baffled by a strange language or encounter, even a worrisome one, there are human resources at hand by phone or,  should a fearful encounter ensue, a tiny emergency button is located a finger away out of sight under the desk.   Not surprisingly either, a volunteer finds he of she is getting an education daily about people and the world around them  that is such a fast-paced environment. 

    Ceiling of Regan National Airport's main entrance: a domed concept from architect Cesar Pelli, said to have been inspired in some respects by Thomas Jefferson;s Monticello. Glorious light and symmetry. The illusion of flying inspace.



t officials don't supply much information for visitors on paper. The sole pamphlet I could find one recent Tuesday afternoon at an unoccupied desk was a small folding map of the National Mall, since that is where a large majority of the millions coming through DC as tourists will end up. Likewise, volunteers are well equipped to give directions on the best way to the Mall, said to be the most popular (in numbers) yearly of all the US National Parks.Also see below: now happening at Reagan National DCA ( and other major airports locally.)

    Sunflower Lanyards

The Hidden Disabilities Sunflower Program was first launched in May 2016 at London Gatwick Airport. This program allows individuals with invisible disabilities to be discreetly identified. It serves as a prompt for someone to discreetly make airport personnel aware that they may need a helping hand, patience, or simply more time.

Lanyards can be picked up from the USO or pre-security Information desks between 10:00am and 6:00pm. New to Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport is  enhanced living feature known as an optimal dining experience via entrepreneur Jose Andres. Go to Gate D to see The Landing - but take money! 

More than 1300 lanyards  were handed out in 2024.

Back to the TA desk and my friend the ever vigilant volunteer host:  Unexpectedly, she found herself with a stranger coming up to her and asking "where are the police. I want to turn myself in." He was in no way distraught, a calm seemingly benevolent man. As duty dictates, she immediately dialed up the airport police number and soon a squad of ten uniformed men appeared. Nothing untoward occurred -- and she doesn't know the outcome. Had this man come up with some ruse or had guilt suddenly overtaken him? A question to answer...

The monthly newsletter for volunteers (travelersaiddca@MWAA.com  routinely contains fully accounts of the 'strangers' who sit behind the welcome desk for 3 or more hours at a time, waiting to be addressed. The former eye doctor who had retired and found the work satisfying since he felt part of the working world again

EAT UP

Other good news to report on for consumer consumption (literally). The ever-entrancing remarkable Folger Shakespeare Library has at last announced opening of the Quill and Crumb Cafe (November 22,  Friday). Open to the public with varying hours, mostly closing hours, depending on the day of the week.  No need to call ahead to reserve as one must do for a complete tour of the building.

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BACK TO BILLINGS



This  metal statue, an intrigingly sculptural form atop the city's Rim (capitalized always) seems to be taking in the entire landscape in front of him - Montana's largest city laid out beneath him. Or maybe a her - as there seems to be a child in tow, attached as though part of the larger body form. This is whimsy at its best, captivating and mysterious, a pleasing sight along the trail.


Friday, October 11, 2024

The Octo Month

 



    What's to cheer except weather?   Indigenous Peoples Day coming along when many (most?) students are free from school (perhaps not the best way to put it).

    The season also breeds more interest in cooking, with the dark creeping in stealthily and earlier each day. This affliction of mine - a hobby, you might say - takes over when I must face the fact it is really addiction. The reasons why I cling NYTimes Cooking so much are many but doubtless in this 'older age' (when doesn't the term apply?) I am reminded of the importance of pleasure in a fulfilling life. Of the need to be distracted (lest the body speak up with an uncertainty), sure of at least one routine: following a well researched recipe, (NYT is tops at this for sure) - a sense of security there I think, though no certainty I will have good results. I simply am not patient enough, and unwilling to think about the importance of proportions. Dividing the usual four person amount so that just one is satisfied: resistance to having an extra step and the sure thing I will then feel cheated. Oh how deep can I go with this subject: the practice/hobby/whatever forces a person to concentrate and thereby less prone to mindless wandering.

    Plus, at least with NYT, so much learning is involved and sometimes stretching of the mental muscles  brought about by reading a well written formula just like reading a deceptively simple aggregation of knowledge (the NYT both digital and print) and intelligent use of language. At the root of it all, I now believe, is a compulsion for order and for belonging. Why not in sharing recipes with unknown recipients of NYTImes Cooking newsletters, etc.? Bonding with  strangers,  engaging in a 'fruitful endeavor' that might produce some satisfaction of sorts...depending on willingness to comply with the rules. I seem to rush through the occasion, holding back any sense of triumph when I'm seldom satisfied.  

Realistically, what emotion I felt upon the completion wasn't/isn't the point. THe point was to finish the job, to 'have done something' and momentarily stave off a sense of hopelessness and singleness. When company is about, I go in the opposite direction: too much worry over outcomes, being judged, etc.

Ah, the forever anxieties we can invent for ourselves.

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    Not so the friend  of mine who decided, upon becoming suddenly by accident  a widow - a  truly horrible shock. She created her own partial antidote to the feeling of loneliness that followed: by deciding  to not spend a lot of time alone, knowing  that otherwise depression  might take over her life. She volunteered for a host of activities (an old habit she had anyway - so she just increased the kind and number). An acquaintance mentioned working behind the Travelers Aid information/help desks at the airport. In this case, Reagan National - a biggie where security is super important, given that it is US politicians' main entrance and exit to the city. Congress calls the shots here, along with Homeland Security, and other agencies of rank overseeing sensitive vulnerable public arenas. (SEE NOVEMBER)

     To be front person for strangers  requires a wealth of training and, once hired, no money but free parking (supposing enough spots are free) and the promise of  feeling good while helping others. Such people - there are eight desks at Reagan National alone -  get backup security if they need it:  the emergency button only a finger away  behind the desk. It takes patience and savvy to know whom to call if a question or stumps one of them. My friend regularly handles busy Sunday evening shifts  when passengers are returning home or taking late day planes. 

A sense of humor  can be useful: Seeing a Security sign warning passengers they  would not be able to go back through the entry  leading to departing planes, a woman asked if that meant she would not be able to go back that way upon her return home.  "Don't worry," my friend said, easing the woman's fears. "They let you get back into the city."

    Such is the nature of life in an international  city where the word culture also can apply to particular  and unusual habits and behaviors (and experiences) that are germane to that city only.